Truth is I did not know. Before getting married we often times wonder if there is a sign or if there is a moment that we just know we are destined to be together. For me, it did not happen that way. Honestly, I still do not know, but what I do know is I love him, he loves me, and we are going to both do our best to make sure this works.
I used to think life would be like a hallmark movie. Guy meets girl, they fall in love, and live happily ever after. Boy did I have it wrong. It was actually the total opposite. Relationships and marriage are hard work. We are still figuring it out.
My husband is far from perfect, but he tries, and he loves me unconditionally. I never boast about the things he does for me, but I do not know what I did to deserve such a loving man. I am truly spoiled and if he ever tells me no I would pass out and just lay there in a puddle of tears, lol but no seriously.
To sum all of this up, as previously stated, I did not ever know he was the one but what I do know is as long as he is trying, I am here to stay. You probably were looking for the formula to true love and relationships here but there isn’t one. Every relationship is different and what I am willing to accept and go through may be different for you and vice versa. Love conquers all! That’s it, that’s the formula lol.